In a large nonstick frying pan, sauté the chopped onions in olive oil on medium-high heat with a pinch of salt, until the edges begin to brown.
Add tomatoes and chilies, and cook until the tomatoes have softened. Add turmeric and red chili powder if using. Stir and cook for a minute.
Add the drained or pressed cottage cheese, cream if using, chopped cilantro and combine gently, just enough so everything is mixed well. Heat through and take it off the heat. The dish should be soft and creamy. Taste add more salt if needed, squeeze a little lemon juice and combine.
Serve over toasted buttered bread or rolled in a tortilla or roti, roasted potatoes or a green salad. Enjoy!